An experienced equestrian has urged others to think before they comment, after she experienced a torrent of criticism online.
Former World Horse Welfare Groom Jordan Headspeath spoke at this year’s World Horse Welfare Conference #WhoseOpinionMatters (11 November).
Jordan owns a small herd of Highland ponies and when Storm Darcy hit in February, there was deep snow in the area.
Despite the conditions, Jordan made her way to the yard to care for her ponies as usual, ensuring they had enough to eat and drink and were comfortable in their field.
When she was leading one pony along a ploughed track, another of her ponies, Nessie, broke out of the sheltered area of the field to run alongside her companion.
Nessie briefly waded through deep snow and Jordan captured the moment on camera. She shared the video on Facebook with the caption, ‘Pony or Plough’.
However, the video did not receive the reaction Jordan expected.
Despite lots of positive comments, many strangers accused her of inadequate care for her ponies, and left her feeling concerned.
Snowballing
“I was completely blown away as I never thought anyone would have anything negative to say,” she said. “I tried to correct and help them understand, but more comments piled in.
“There were lots of comments from people jumping to assumptions how Nessie got there. It was unpleasant and a kick in the teeth.
“I know [my ponies] are fine, they are my pride and joy, but the self doubt still creeps in.
“Nessie has 500 years of breeding behind her. I know this, but I still sat on sofa worrying.”
Ms Headspeath removed the video from some of the groups she had shared it on, and is now more cautious when she shares online.
She urged others to think before they comment, particularly if they do not understand the context of the subject they are discussing.
“I didn’t explain the context of the video, but I didn’t think I’d have to,” she said.
“Please be mindful about how, where and when it is useful to pass your judgements.”
